The Present is a Gift

The Present is a Gift

One of the greatest gifts of teaching little yogi beans has been the opportunity to consistently meet new children. I am often amazed by children’s unique personalities, and find myself learning from them all the time. They teach me to be open to new ideas and remind me to stay in the present moment.

I try to begin each class in a calm and open state of mind. There have been times when the bus took too long or the train was delayed, and I had to rush to get to a class. These were opportunities for me to practice remaining present. Before I began teaching, I consciously slowed down my breathing and reminded myself that the stress of getting to class was over and now it was time to be in the moment.

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Although I like to write out a lesson plan for each class, I find that I very rarely follow it completely. Being open and receptive to the children’s energy each day allows them to contribute to the class and makes for a much more rewarding experience for everyone. There are times when I find myself spontaneously leading a fun new activity based on the children’s creativity. For example, this week one student suggested that we do a “Yoga Scavenger Hunt”. It turned out to be a fun way to mindfully search for different props and practice our poses. Being present with the children allowed this exciting new idea to surface.

Children are so intuitive and aware, and working with them each day allows me to deepen my yoga practice. If I ever get off track and find myself worrying about the past or fearing the future, I can be certain a little bean will remind me that “the now” is what’s important!

There’s No Place Like a NEW Home!

There’s No Place Like a NEW Home!

We are so excited that we have finally found a new home for the Yogi Beans studio! Our new studio will be located at 1018 Lexington Avenue at 73rd street.    

It’s an interesting story how we came upon this space. Back in June we saw 1018 Lex when there wasn’t even a “For Rent” sign in the window.  After a little research we found a broker who was able to show us the space.  The moment we walked inside we fell in love.  Something about this space seemed so right for Yogi Beans.  We put in our offer and were told the landlord was on vacation for a month.  (It was June so he must have been taking his summer vacation.)  In July, our broker got back to us and said that the building was being sold and the offer was no longer on the table.  To our disappointment, we moved forward and looked at various other spaces.   It was a tedious process as each new space seemed to have something wrong with it.  Seven months later in December we received an email from the same broker informing us that 1018 Lexington was back on the market.  We were in negotiations for another space a few blocks north, and right before closing the deal feel through – again!

1018 Lexington just kept coming back to us and this time it was for real!  Our studio search was a true lesson in patience and persistence. After four brokers, three leases and seven long months we couldn’t be happier with our new home.  Our new space boasts two studios, wall-to-ceiling windows, and is in close proximity to many schools and child-friendly stores (Mary Arnold Toys, Giggle and Zbaby just to name a few).  We are feeling very grateful and excited to welcome you into our new home!

Construction begins this week and our doors open March 5th.  We will be offering an entire month of FREE classes so check out our schedule and please stop in and say Namaste!   

Happy 2012! Tapas is More Than Just Appetizers…

Happy 2012! Tapas is More Than Just Appetizers…

Welcome 2012!  A new year, a new beginning!

As with many beginnings, there is a sense of starting anew, a clean slate.  Many of us begin the New Year committed to making changes in our lives that will promote our health and well-being.  These intentions are usually wholehearted and sincere.  However, by the time February rolls around, many of us fall back into our previous habits.  What we promised to ourselves for 2012 can often get lost in the daily grind.

In yoga philosophy, there is a concept called tapas.  Tapas is self-discipline.  It is one of the five niyamas (moral observances for interactions with yourself) and it teaches us the value of commitment to ourselves in order to purify our body, mind and soul.  The more you practice tapas, the better you get at it!  I find it helpful to remind myself about tapas a few weeks into the New Year when I may feel disconnected from 2012 intentions or resolutions. (feigning that sugary treat or going to grab that cup of coffee!) Instilling tapas takes hard work, though, that is not necessarily a bad thing.

Talking about discipline with kids is usually an interesting and insightful discussion.  I like to first ask our little beans what they think about the word.  This was an idea shared with me by one of Yogi Beans’ instructors, Sarita, and I loved it so much that I quite often incorporate it into my classes.  I ask the children if discipline has a negative or positive connotation.   Do they think it’s a good or bad thing?  The conversation will eventually lead to the importance of self-discipline.  For example, one Yogi Bean participant said that being neat takes self-discipline. It is hard for her to do; yet she feels better when she does it.  This dedication and hard work is tapas!  I encourage you to ask your little bean what discipline means for them and how they feel about the word self-discipline.

Wishing you all a happy and healthy New Year filled with Love, Light, Peace and Tapas!

An Interesting Juxtaposition for the Holidays…

An Interesting Juxtaposition for the Holidays…

The holiday season is now upon us!

It’s an interesting juxtaposition in that on Thanksgiving we spend the day immersed in gratitude expressing how thankful we are for all that we have in our lives. The following day, Black Friday, we go out and are willing to trample over another human in order to get the deal we want. Now, believe me, I love a good sale and I am not ashamed to admit shopping as a favorite pastime (who doesn’t love the Barneys Warehouse Sale or a great deal at Century 21!) However, that said, my yoga practice has definitely taught me to reflect on my “wants” for a new pair of jeans or a new boot, when I already have half a dozen pair of jeans in my closet and my boots from last season are holding up just fine. Why do we always want more? When is it ever enough?

In yoga philosophy there is a word called aparigraha. Aparigraha is one of the five yamas (moral codes), and is the Sanksrit word for greedlessness or non-grasping. Aparigraha means to take what is truly necessary and no more. The holiday season is a wonderful time to practice aparigraha. Now, I am not trying to be a Scrooge or take the joy out of the holiday season…I am just adding a little more mindfulness when the lists of what we want begin to accumulate.

Instead of creating a list of all the toys we want, try asking your little beans to create a list of what they are going to give. Another idea is to ask your Yogi Bean to choose one gift off of their list to give away to a child in need. You can also try hanging up two lists on your refrigerator door: one is a Thanksgiving list, which shows us all the things we are thankful for; and the other is our holiday list. Looking at the two lists side-by-side can certainly help children and adults alike realize that we usually have all that we truly need, and the most appreciable gifts are not those bought in stores!

Wishing you and your family a happy and healthy holiday season filled with love, laughter and aparigraha!

Gratitude Adjustment

Gratitude Adjustment

We are in the swing of Fall! 

Most of us have adjusted to our school schedules and the crisp air is a delight.  With Thanksgiving just around the corner, it is wonderful time to take pause and think about what we are grateful for in our lives.  Explaining the notion of gratitude to children is an important concept that can help turn a frown upside doChild - Thank Youwn. You can easily explain that the word “gratitude” is another way to say “thankful.”  Personally, when I find myself in a state of agitation or complaining (waiting for the bus that never shows…), I remind myself to stay connected to gratitude. Even though the bus may be late I remind myself that I am lucky the bus stop is fairly close to my apartment, and I am even more grateful that I have a means of transportation to get me where I need to go. When we stay connected to a state of gratitude we can usually uplift our spirits even in the most dismal of situations.

Try asking the little yogibean in your life what he or she is grateful for (this is an especially useful practice when you notice a state of agitation or discontent coming on.)  It is totally acceptable to be grateful for one’s toys or video games; however, also ask your little yogibean if they are grateful for certain people or non-material items.  Explain that we can be grateful for the simplest of things; for example, the tree outside our window with its changing leaves, the yummy snack packed in our lunch box, or the hug we received on the way to school this morning.  You can also try making a Gratitude Calendar, writing something you are grateful for each day.

Staying connected to a state of gratitude keeps things in perspective and reminds us how much we have to be thankful for this season - no matter how old we are!

Success! Yogi Beans Concludes its First Public Basic Kids Yoga Teacher Training.

Success! Yogi Beans Concludes its First Public Basic Kids Yoga Teacher Training.

This weekend was our first public Yogi Beans Basic Kids Yoga Teacher Training! The months spent preparing for our

Yogi Beans 25-Hour Basic Teacher Training Manual

updated training program were a labor of love that culminated in a 121-page color manual. I knew the manual was a success when one of the trainees, a retired kindergarten teacher with 25 years of experience, told me how impressed she was with the directives and explanations in the manual. This trainee went so far as to ask me if I studied child development in school! (I was a theater major, so the closest thing would have been some roles in children’s theater…)

Our group consisted of teachers, guidance counselors, day care directors, moms as well as surfer, a former photographer, and an aspiring wellness coach. What a motley crew it was, each bringing her own flavor of experience to the group. Even though many of us came from different backgrounds, we all had two things in common: a love of yoga and a desire to share it with children.

The group’s creativity and willingness to play and learn was inspiring. I also learned from them about some great new books, songs and websites that I am excited to share with our little Yogi Beans. On top of that, all of our amazing YB instructors stopped by to share some of their kids’ yoga teaching techniques and stories with the group. Even my partner, Alexa, added nuggets of her yoga teaching wisdom and got each trainee to turn her world upside down and stand on her head (and hands and forearms).

I am so proud of each and every one of our trainees and look forward to seeing where they go with their new skills as children’s yoga teachers. Thank you for a wonderful weekend! I am looking forward to our next training on 11/11/11 (what a powerful day for manifestation!!).

For information about our upcoming trainings please visit www.yogibeans.com/teachertraining or shoot us an email at teachertraining@yogibeans.com.

Even Miles the cat couldn't get enough of the new Teacher Training Manual!

From Summer to September…

From Summer to September…

It’s August. The end of summer is approaching. It is a time for vacations, picnics, and family gatherings. The sun is still setting late in the day and the warm summer-time breeze still feels good on your skin. Until you are walking down the street and notice … an ad for Back to School!

It has been a few years since I have been enrolled as a full time student. Yet, despite the years, I still get that pit in my stomach when I see the first window ad for Back to School shopping. I think to myself:“We still have half the summer left, why are they bringing this up now?!” If I still feel this way, , I can only imagine how a child (or school teacher, for that matter) feels as the summer starts to wind down and we make our way into fall.

To ease the transition between summer and September, I would suggest creating Back to School rituals for your family. The best time to introduce these rituals is before bedtime and early in the morning. For example, before going to bed in the evening take a moment with your child to choose clothes for the following day. You and your child can talk about the change in weather and discuss what happens in nature during the fall. Ask your child what colors s/he wants to wear and how a certain color makes him/her feel. Not only will this task make getting ready in the morning easier, it will also make your child feel more independent by choosing his/her own outfit to wear to school ) and asserting a sense of individuality.

Understandably, getting ready to head out the door to school in the morning is a task in itself. Little time is left for relaxation when everyone is focused on making sure backpacks are packed, lunches ready and shoes are on the right feet. One idea is to incorporate a quick morning ritual to give everyone a moment of calm before the storm. A morning ritual can be short, between 1-3 minutes. Before walking out the door, take a moment with your little one(s) to hold hands in a circle, take 3 deep breathes and give thanks for the day to come. You can be thankful for anything: the cereal I ate this morning, my toy dinosaur that is coming to Show and Tell or simply thankful for getting out the door and to the bus on time.

It is important to acknowledge that transitions are challenging for kids and adults alike. The transition from summer-time freedom to s school structure can seem daunting and a bit distressing for both parent and child. Try to remember to breathe, go with the flow and keep a connection to feelings of gratitude. Change and transition is inevitable; it is how we handle the change that matters most.

Welcome to the Bean Blog!

Welcome to the Bean Blog!

Welcome to the Bean Blog!   We are so happy you have taken time to peruse our new website and check out our brand new Bean Blog!  We will be updating the blog  with creative ideas, products and classes all related to children (who we will often refer to as Yogi Beans), as well as yoga, wellness and holistic health information we think you’ll be interested in and benefit from!

We have made it through the long cold winter and summertime has finally arrived! (Remember the snowstorms we had this December – don’t they seem so long ago?)  We encourage you to spend time outdoors with your Yogi Bean and enjoy the gifts the earth offers to us this time of year.  Flowers are in full bloom and delicious fruits are bountiful.  (Did anyone see the blackberries at Trader Joe’s this week?) Days are longer and our bodies rejoice in the sunlight. During the summer our bodies are naturally more open and supple so what better time to start a yoga practice? Grab your little Yogi Bean, find some green grass, sand or any open space and break out your Down Dog!

In honor of the sunniest of seasons our pose for the month of July is Dolphin Pose.   Dolphins are amazing creatures and there is so much we can learn from them.  They are friendly, intelligent and playful.  Did you know Dolphins are conscious breathers and that they sleep with one eye open?  This connection to their breath is one of the many reasons dolphins are so special. While holding dolphin pose practice mindful breathing.  Try holding the pose for 10 long breaths and notice how you feel afterwards.   Are you shoulders more open?  Do you feel more relaxed?

If you are a lover of dolphins we encourage you to check out www.wildquest.com or www.planetarypartners.com to learn about some amazing retreats in the Bahamas that allow you to swim with wild dolphins.  It is an amazing life changing experience for your and your lil yogi. 

Until next time- Namaste !